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Designing Your Ceremony

Seeing Is Believing

Options:
  The Unity Candle
  Wine Sharing
  The Symbology of Crystals
  Presenting Roses to Vips
  The Blessing Tree
  Vows By Candlelight
  Entering With Roses
  Using a Photomontage
  Readers
  Sample Readings
  Taking Parental Vows
  Bubbles, Bells and Petals
  The 2nd Kiss
  Doves and Butterflies

Advice On:
  Why Most Ceremonies Fail
  The 5 Ultimate Rules
  Facing Your Guests
  Using Subliminals
  Escorts and Ushers
  Escorting a Bride
  Children in Weddings
  Using an Aisle Runner
  Using a Carriage
  Using a Limousine
  Promoting Your Wedding

Considerations:
  Seating
  Environment
  Protecting Your Entrance
  Honoring Culture
  Interfaith Ceremonies
  Creativity and Style
  Actions in Memoriam
  Helping Photographers
  Understanding Lighting
  The Order of Events
  Making a Program/Handbill

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Of all your wedding day events none will be as important as the 30 minutes you entrust to the person performing your ceremony. All of the time, effort and money you have invested in your wedding planning will culminate during that fraction of an hour. For there, in front of dozens or hundreds of your guests, you will both make your first statement as husband and wife. And cameras and video recorders will make your images, your words and most importantly- your wedding day decisions – permanent.

A great wedding ceremony is designed to engage its audience. It follows then that the  bridal party should face their guests, which is visually alluring and eminently  photogenic. The wording of the ceremony should be spoken in modern, conversational English whose meaning is readily and easily understood. And the choreography of the ceremony  should involve a variety of highly effective vignettes, such as candle lighting or presenting roses. These interactions with family and friends, honor their relationship with the bride and groom before the on looking audience. Finally, truly unforgettable weddings are measured in smiles and tears – that’s why the ceremony must evoke emotion – for feelings are what move us..

With proper guidance and planning, your ceremony will say the right things about you, through the words and events of your choosing, and create indelible memories in the hearts and minds of your guests. This tailor-made approach in wedding planning will produce opportunities for exceptional photography and video footage, and will place everyone in a jubilant mood for the reception that follows. I will show how to do all of this. 

As I begin my 15th year as a professional wedding minister or officiant, I bring to you the knowledge gained from working with over 2000 couples.  I wish you and yours the best in the celebration of your new lives together, and offer my professional services in helping you create a Day Of Dreams.