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ALL ABOUT MY SERVICES
  About Thomas Witham
How My Ceremonies Are Different
The Couples I Work For
Where I've Performed
Religious and Philosophical Expression
Your Greatest Advocate
 
 
CHAPTER ONE
  Environment
Ushers
Effective Seating
Aisle Runners and Petals
Children in Weddings
Escorting a Bride
CHAPTER TWO
Taking Parental Vows
Music
Using a Pedestal
Readers
Wedding Ceremony Readings
CHAPTER THREE
Ceremonies in Special Places
In Memoriam
In Finale
Vows by Candlelight
The Reception Line
CHAPTER FOUR
The Unity Candle
Wine Sharing
The Sand Ceremony
The Blessing Tree
The Giving of Roses
 
 
- See 200 Glorious Ceremonies Now
- How To Create Your Order of Events
- Other Resources and Links 
- An Invitation to Journalists
- Seeking a Justice of the Peace 
 
   

 

Of all your wedding day events none will be as important as the 30 minutes you entrust to the wedding minister performing your ceremony. All of the time, effort and money you have invested in your wedding planning will culminate during that fraction of an hour. For there, in front of dozens or hundreds of your guests, you will both make your first statement as husband and wife. And cameras and video recorders will make your images, your words and most importantly- your wedding day decisions – permanent.

A great wedding ceremony is designed to engage its audience. It follows then that the bridal party should face their guests, which is visually alluring and eminently photogenic. The wording of the ceremony should be spoken in modern, conversational English whose meaning is readily and easily understood. And the choreography of the ceremony should involve a variety of highly effective vignettes, such as candle lighting or wine sharing along with the presentation of roses.

This imagery, along with the interaction of your family and friends, honors their relationship with you before the on looking audience. These unforgettable moments produce smiles and tears – evidence that you have taken your guests to the coveted high ground of wedding ceremony. Feelings make weddings, just like feelings make movies and novels.

With proper guidance and planning, your ceremony will say the right things about you, through the words and events of your choosing, and create indelible memories in the hearts and minds of your guests. This tailor-made approach in wedding ceremony design will produce opportunities for exceptional photography and video footage, and will place everyone in a jubilant mood for the reception that follows.

As a wedding minister, I approach your ceremony as an opportunity- to show everyone present what this day means to you. I bring to my couples dozens of unique options they can use in making their ceremony photogenic, entertaining, and most importantly- evocative.

Greatness in a wedding ceremony will never be achieved by simply performing a rerun of the common wedding ceremony for your guests. Your wedding ceremony must be so much more than this.

As you read my website, you'll discover that everything I do in a wedding ceremony is calculated for effect. Every word, every event, and every participant are collectively used in my ceremonies to deliver the praise and compliments of the audience. I don't have a casual interest in how your ceremony turns out.

Neither will I assume that you are "naturally" ready to give such a beautiful performance. This is why every aspect of your ceremony is explained first in detail and only then rehearsed. And this is also why my couples excel in their performances- for they know fundamentally what their ceremony requires of them, and they are exceedingly comfortable and confident in delivering it.

Photo at page center: Dale and Christina after their ceremony at the Oakbrook Marriott, Oakbrook, Il.