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Of all your wedding day
events none will be as important as the 30 minutes you
entrust to the wedding minister performing your ceremony.
All of the time, effort and money you have invested
in your wedding planning will culminate during that
fraction of an hour. For there, in front of dozens or
hundreds of your guests, you will both make your first
statement as husband and wife. And cameras and video
recorders will make your images, your words and most
importantly- your wedding day decisions – permanent.
A
great wedding ceremony is designed to engage its audience.
It follows then that the bridal party should face their
guests, which is visually alluring and eminently photogenic.
The wording of
the ceremony should be spoken in modern, conversational
English whose meaning is readily and easily understood.
And the choreography of the ceremony should involve
a variety of highly effective vignettes, such as candle
lighting or wine sharing along with the presentation
of roses.
This imagery, along with
the interaction of your family and friends, honors their
relationship with you before the on looking audience.
These unforgettable moments produce smiles and tears
– evidence that you have taken your guests to
the coveted high ground of wedding ceremony. Feelings
make weddings, just like feelings make movies and novels.
With proper guidance
and planning, your ceremony will say the right things
about you, through the words and events of your choosing,
and create indelible memories in the hearts and minds
of your guests. This tailor-made approach in wedding
ceremony design will produce opportunities for exceptional
photography and video footage, and will place everyone
in a jubilant mood for the reception that follows.
As a wedding minister,
I approach your ceremony as an opportunity- to show
everyone present what this day means to you. I bring
to my couples dozens of unique options they can use
in making their ceremony photogenic, entertaining, and
most importantly- evocative.
Greatness in a wedding ceremony will never be achieved
by simply performing a rerun of the common wedding ceremony
for your guests. Your wedding ceremony must be so much
more than this.
As you read my website, you'll discover that everything
I do in a wedding ceremony is calculated for effect.
Every word, every event, and every participant are collectively
used in my ceremonies to deliver the praise and compliments
of the audience. I don't have a casual interest in how
your ceremony turns out.
Neither will I assume that you are "naturally"
ready to give such a beautiful performance. This is
why every aspect of your ceremony is explained first
in detail and only then rehearsed. And this is also
why my couples excel in their performances- for they
know fundamentally what their ceremony requires of them,
and they are exceedingly comfortable and confident in
delivering it.
Photo at page center: Dale and Christina
after their ceremony at the Oakbrook Marriott, Oakbrook,
Il. |