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Elopement Ceremonies In Chicago
Adam and Nikki, on the bridge over South Pond, just after their ceremony at the Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool. - Chicago, Illinois.

Do You Really Want One Of Those Gaudy Wedding Chapels?

Adam and Nikki have come to Chicago for their elopement ceremony. They have chosen well. Like many such couples throughout the nation that I have worked for, they have chosen to travel to another locale, indeed some other state to elope. Adam and Nikkie chose the Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool for their setting on a beautiful summer afternoon. Other couples chose Navy Pier, the Sears Tower, The John Hancock Center, Millennium Park, for their elopement ceremonies. I also refer to small, informal ceremonies as eloping ceremonies even though the couple may live locally.

Nationwide, couples looking to elope often fall for the wedding mills of Las Vegas, or some gaudy wedding chapel in the "Dollywood" hills of Tennessee. Allured by travel packages and other enticements, they ultimately find themselves standing before a minister who performs assembly line weddings.

You can do a whole lot better. I'll help you plan your elopement by phone and email, and I'll help you find the right setting for your ceremony, and as you are about to see- I know them all. You'll have a truly special and customized ceremony from me, and then Michigan Avenue awaits you and your party with the city's finest restaurants.

Eloping ceremonies (or small ceremonies) are small, fun, and very comfortable affairs, but they can include an extensive compliment of options should a couple choose. Even though my couples were eloping many brought a small entourage of friends and family with them. I'll put all of this together for you, and make it very photogenic too!

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