Michael And Jodi Taking Parental Vows to Avery at Chateau Bu-she, Alsip, Il.

Often marriage is thought of as the joining of two people.  In reality, marriage joins many lives. This is most apparent when the bride and/or groom have children.   With children present, marriage becomes the proclaiming of a new family.  And without a loving commitment to those children, a wedding ceremony is incomplete.

The presentation of a family medallion is just one of many ways of honoring your children during the ceremony.  Speaking to them on bent knee or at their level, as shown at left, and assuring your love, gives them peace of mind as well.  Their lives change with yours on wedding day.

In the ceremony proper, a bride and groom take an oath to each other (the exchange of vows).  A similar oath can be taken with children as well.  Let's say that the groom Michael, is marrying Sarah who has two children Trevor and Katie.  In mid-ceremony, with their children gathered before them, I would ask of the bride and groom:

Do you Michael and Sarah...

Promise to honor and protect Trevor and Katie,
and to provide for them to the best of your ability?

After this vow, the Family Medallion would be presented (if this option is used) and photographs taken.   Please remember that this is all optional and is presented to give you a suggestion on one of many ways your children can be honored. You can do all of this without a family medallion too.  Taking vows to your children followed by your loving embrace is just as effective.