Dawn and Gonzalo exchanging vows by candlelight

 

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Options:
  The Unity Candle
  Wine Sharing
  The Symbology of Crystals
  Presenting Roses to Vips
  The Blessing Tree
  Vows By Candlelight
  Entering With Roses
  Using a Photomontage
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  Taking Parental Vows
  Bubbles, Bells and Petals
  The 2nd Kiss
  Doves and Butterflies

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Congregational candles are thin, pencil-like candles, and are placed on each seat before the ceremony begins.  A book of matches is placed on every other seat to facilitate lighting.  Prior to the entrance of the bridal party, when I am speaking to the guests, I will explain the use of the candles and when they are to be lit.

During mid-ceremony, just prior to the exchange of the vows and rings, I will ask your guests to light their congregational candles and to come gather closely around the two of you.  Ushers facilitate the lighting of these candles.  The lights are dimmed out, and the bride and groom exchange their vows and rings under the milky glow of the candle light.  The candles are used for about a five minute period, not the entire ceremony. You can imagine how romantic this is and how remarkable your wedding becomes if you use this option!  After the exchange of vows and rings, guests return to their seats and lighting is returned. 

Congregational candles are best used in indoor facilities where no daylight can reach the ceremony area.  They can also be used after dusk (if outdoors) and in that application would be used for the entire ceremony.

If using congregational candles tell your photographer that he/she needs to prepare for a low light situation and will probably need to bring high speed film.