Of Many Professionals, But A Vision Of One.
You are not hiring me to perform
the common wedding ceremony for you; you are hiring me
to perform my wedding ceremony for you. As evidenced by
this website, there is a considerable difference. I honestly do
need or want
input from third parties- just like your florist or photographer
doesn't want advice from third parties either.
I will gently lead you, like
a theater director, through all the beautiful options you have chosen
for your wedding ceremony.
I am assisting your photographers and cueing your musicians
or DJ as well.
I govern all. This is not to control
freak you. It's to get results. You have spent thousands on
this. Your reputations and those of your families are on the
line as well. And if you are the typical bride or groom you
will have from 20 to 400 eyeballs on you for 30 minutes straight.
You are hiring me for results.
I'm going to deliver those results - in spades. It's just that
from time to time a wedding coordinator, a future mother in
law or even a bridesmaid will take it on themselves to advise
me on how to perform a wedding ceremony. They invariably become
offended should I disagree with their suggestions, not to mention
the time that is lost during a rehearsal. Some ministers really
the ceremony they perform is designed or rehearsed by someone
else. I'm not one of them.